Dating Technique: Understand Who You Are

When you feel better about yourself, you'll feel more relaxed and confident around women, too. Women sense this, and they'll feel good being around you.

 

When writing a profile for a dating website, you have to understand who you are.

First step: describe yourself at a dating website, so that potential date will easily visualize you. What would you say? Well, a good start is a physical description. Include your age, height, weight, physical build, and personality. Build a realistic description of who you are and what you represent for a potential date. Be honest with yourself, and go with your first impulses. Don't leave out your weaknesses, but also be positive and look for your strong points – it’s important in dating. Don't risk compromising your self-expression and confidence by only listing out all your inadequacies and hang-ups.

Take a look at these questions. Answer them honestly.

1. Are you reliable, honest, funny, educated, shy or outgoing, practical or uninhibited?
2. Do you have a large social group of friends and co-workers, or do you like to spend time with just one or two important people?
3. What have your past relationships with women been like? Who ends them? Why?
4. What is your current financial status?
5. What are your religious and political views?
6. What beliefs and values do you live by? Now, this next group of questions is more important. You should spend a little more time on your answers.
7. What activities do you enjoy?
8. What are you interested in?
9. What are your hobbies, if any?
10. Are you happy in your career, or would you like to learn new skills and change jobs?
11. Who or what would you like to become?
12. If you could do anything to spend your time, what would you choose to do?

Write this down while the ideas are spontaneous and instinctual. Your first impulses are more likely to be true. Don't cheat yourself - you'll be using this analysis to increase your chances of getting the woman of your dreams. Of course, you can always go back and add more ideas to your notes later.